You both are emotionally worn out. One or both of you have probably threatened divorce or at least thought about it seriously. You still have strong feelings for each other but your starting to wonder if it is simply “just not meant to be”. Some of you have talked to your church leaders, counselor, friends or others about how to fix your marriage. Some of you have gone to marriage therapy. You have tried over and over to fix things but still keep getting the same results. You’re not sure that divorce is right but you know that marriage is not suppose to be this way either. By now most of you are starting to give up.

You are saying to yourself, “I thought this was a divorce website!” Don’t be confused. We specialize in helping couples do divorce a better way…the right way by keeping their divorce out of a courtroom.

BUT…

We want to be clear on one thing. WE ARE NOT PROPONENTS OF DIVORCE. We don’t want to put couples through the divorce process if there is still a chance they can save their marriage!

There are 3 reasons we added this section to our website:

1. We know that there are many couples out there that have a bad marriage but do not want a divorce.
2. We know couples don’t want to stay married unless things change…. permanently.
3. We know they have not been able to figure out how to change things to make it better.

If you are one of these couples then we have some information you need to get before you make the final decision to get divorced.

We have teamed up with Townsend Relationship Center (TRC) (www.fixthemarriage.com) in Salt Lake City and the Highland Project (www.highlandeducation.com) in Provo to bring a service to couples that have a severely distressed marriage. Matt Townsend the founder of TRC and Liz Dalton the founder of the Highland Project have developed a relationship communication-coaching program that has an impressive 86% success rate in helping couples recover from broken marriage relationships. This is not counseling. This is not therapy. This is a hard core, look at yourself, stop blaming, start communicating, learn how to really love again boot camp.

You might be saying to yourself, “Not another marriage counselor!” and if you are then you would be right. This will not be another marriage counseling program. We don’t believe that counseling is all bad. In fact in many cases it is necessary. The problem with marriage counseling is most counselors have been trained to do a great job at telling you what your problems are and then leave you hanging. They don’t give you any skills on how to fix the problem. As a result you see couples that leave a session pointing fingers and blaming because the counselor said it was the other persons fault. In many cases divorces deteriorate even further after going to a marriage counselor.

TRC and The Highland Project approach your marriage problems from a completely different angle. You will not only learn what is really wrong with your relationship but you will learn skills and will be given an action plan to start working on improving your relationship TODAY. Most of all you will have real hope that your relationship can and will get better and life will get better.

If you are interested in trying to fix your marriage then click on the links to the left and set up a time to visit with a Professional Marriage Coach.